Idiot Dad

I would be soooo very angry if anyone bypassed my wishes and put their own name on the birth certificate. In the comments someone else says their grandmother changed her name!
Yes it takes two to make a baby, but one of those two people actually used her flesh and blood to create and grow and nurture that baby and then some type of labor to bring the child into the world. Therefore, she gets more say than he does. (My opinion)